It hurts when you think good about someone but he directly rejects it. The same case is with you. You offered him a nice blowjob but he said no. This can be painful if you really wanted to please him. These situations can be a confidence breaker. Some women start doubting themselves if there is some problem with them. The situation could be anything. So, don’t directly blame yourself in this type of situation.
If your boyfriend rejected your BJ offer then do not get upset about it. There can be many possible reasons and to short it out you need to talk to him. First, wait for some time and observe if he do it again. And if he repeats the situation then talk about it.
I know the above simple answer is not enough to satisfy you that’s why I have written this whole blog. I will explain everything that you should do in this situation so, you do not spoil your relationship. Every step is connected to another step then do not skip anything. Just read the blog thoroughly otherwise you can misinterpret what I want to say. I know it will take some time but at last, it will be worth it.
1. Stop thinking too much
The very first thing you need to do is stop thinking too much about it. If you keep doing so then you will romanticize the situation and will get to a bad decision. This can be just about mood. It may be possible that he was not in the mood for a blowjob. Or maybe he was tensed about something. There can be many other possible reasons why he doesn’t want the blowjob. So, stop thinking much about it. give him some time. If he has done something wrong then he will realize it and will get back to you.
2. Observe if it happens again
If this was the first time then there is no reason to think much about it. It is just a spoiled mood that has done this. But if it is repeating every time then there is something wrong with it. You need to talk about it. Observe if he says no to the only blowjob or if he is not ready for any sexual activity. If says no to blowjob only then that’s a different case but he is not ready about any sexual activity then this is something very wrong.
Do you guys ever had done this or this was your first time? If this was your first time then we can fix it. But if you had done it much time and now he doesn’t want it then this is another situation to think for. Basically, there are many things to notice about and you just have to observe.
3. Talk about it
The very first thing you have to do is to talk about it. If he is rejecting your blowjob offer regularly then talk about it. Ask him why he is doing so? Whether he likes it or not. There are chances that he is not open to a blowjob. The chances are low that he does not like blowjob but if he is in those 1% of guys who don’t like blowjob then God help him. He doesn’t know what he is missing. If I would be there then I would definitely say yes to you. 😋 Hell Yeeeah.
Hey, but ask him because there are chances. There are many other possibilities that you can read above but it is always better to clarify. If you directly ask him about it then the chances are that he will get open to you and tell you the reason why he said no to blowjob.
4. Check if he likes blowjob
As I said above that you need to confirm if he likes it or not. If he is ready for a kiss, sex but not ready for a blowjob then there are chances that he doesn’t like it. Or, another reason that is possible that he thinks that blowjob is degrading for a woman. And if he thinks like this then he will never get ready for a blowjob if he respects you. In that case, it is your duty to make him understand that you like it.
Sometimes men don’t get ready for a blowjob because they fear that it will explode in your mouth and you will not like it. You will get mad about it. Know the reason why he does not want to cum in your mouth here. If these are the reason then tell him that you like to suck his penis. It will not hurt you but you will feel better by this. If it turns you on then tell him about this.
If he doesn’t know all these things then there is an issue of proper conversation. You guys have never talked about it clearly. Make him comfortable about it. Clarify if he has any doubt about it. If he does not like blowjob then make him like it. It is only you who can do this.
5. Tell him your intention
Some men don’t like to go down to a woman. There are chances that he is one of them and doesn’t like to eat your pie. So, when you offered him a blowjob then he thought that you also want the return and that’s why he directly said no. While asking for a blowjob tell him that what you want. If you don’t want anything in return then tell him this. By the way, it is your right to get the return favor. But it is all your personal choice. Just clarify your intentions while asking for a blowjob.
6. Get great at giving a blowjob
If this was not the first time when you were about to give him a blowjob then it is possible that you are not great at giving a blowjob. I mean if you have given him a blowjob before but now he is saying that he doesn’t want it then maybe he doesn’t like the blowjob you gave him before. Know if you are good at giving a blowjob?
I know it is hard to accept but there are very few women who know how to give a good blowjob. Otherwise, most of the women are below average. Now you may be thinking that at that time he said that he liked it and he also exploded. babe, the truth is no man says to a woman that she was bad at sucking. It is just a polite manner so you don’t get hurt. Men do not want to hurt their loved ones. But I am not here to please you, right?
My duty here is to tell you the truth and help you with this situation. And that is what I am doing by telling you this harsh truth. If he is saying that he doesn’t want a blowjob from you after he has taken one then the high chances are that you are bad at it. Don’t worry, no need to cry about this. It is a skill and you can practice it. Just practice…practice…practice. Practice is the key.
But to practice this, first you need to know what you have to practice. Because blowjob is not just about sucking a dick. This is where most women stuck and always be a below-average blowjob giver. Don’t get stuck in this paradox that blowjob is all about just sucking a dick. Try to learn this awesome skill. If you want to learn this skill then 👉 this can help you to be great at giving blowjobs 👈 and be a blowjob queen. Just start practicing this skill and there is no alive man who can say no to you. 😍
7. Go for a new one
Hey, this is the final thing you can do. I hope you don’t get into this situation. If none of the above points fit into your situation this is what you have to do. I mean if you are great at giving a blowjob but still your guy doesn’t want it (How can someone be such a fool🤔 ). Then you are wasting your talent on him. If you have a great talent for a blowjob then don’t waste it on him. There are many on this earth who are crazy about this. If you are not emotionally connected to your guy then go for a new one. Jump on a good dating website and find someone who can respect this skill and value it.
I hope this article helped you. Let me know in the comment what you have decided to do. I will love to know your situation.
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