This question might be asked by men or women both. Some girls and boys misinformed about blowjob, and they think that blowjob is degrading for women. But if you assume the only blowjob is degrading for women, you made a mistake to understand the blowjob.
A blowjob is degrading for women if she feels uncomfortable while giving blowjob to her partner. Suppose a man forces his woman to give a blowjob or not make her feel special and if her feelings don’t matter to a man. The best way to empower a woman while she is giving blowjob to a man is to treat a girl like she is special.
In this blog, I’ll discuss what makes a woman feel degrading while giving a blowjob? What should a woman do if blowjob feels degrading? If a woman feels degrading, then how to make a woman feel empowered while giving a blowjob?. All I will try to explain in this blog.
What makes a woman feel like degrading while giving a blowjob?
As a man, you may think in the way that why a woman feels like degrading when she is giving blowjob to a man because guys love it. We have a problem that we want whatever we like, others will also like that thing as much as we feel. But things change for everyone.
You don’t just expect a woman to enjoy blowjob without appreciating her, making her feel special, or interacting with her with every moment of her blowjob. Let’s try to get why women sometimes just hate or feel like degrading while sucking your dick. There are many reasons when a woman feels like degrading while giving a blowjob like if:
1. You are demanding:
Men tend to show and become superior in front of any woman. They are just very demanding sometimes. Just keep in mind one thing if you want to win your partner, just be calm and be patient. Too much demanding can only ruin her excitement or attraction over you.
Learnbj tips: Instead of demanding blowjob, ask her sweetly and first prioritize her by stimulating her sexual interest.
2. You ignore her feelings:
If a man only prioritizes his feeling without trying to know what others feel during sexual activity and doing this, you can only eliminate the interest of your partner.
3. Hold her head:
Don’t try to force her to give you deepthroat. Some girls just don’t like it, and they don’t know how to suck deep? While she is giving blowjob, don’t try to hold her head if she is not comfortable with this.
4. Force a girl:
If a man force his girl to receive blowjob from her then it might chances that a girl not only hates blowjob but also feel like degrading while giving blowjob to her partner.
5. She does not like your cum taste:
Some girls do not like cum taste at all. It is because of a man’s diet which is not so good. Alcohol and smoking are some of the top reasons that a man cum taste is awful. Opting a healthy diet can change the cum taste terrible to sweet and tasty that any girl loves it.
6. Not make her feel special after blowjob:
A guy should always remember it is his responsibility to make her partner feel special not only after blowjob, but every moment she is sucking your dick. Women do not like at all if their partner does not compliment them. Keep in mind girls are hungry for compliments and do anything just to listen to his partner special compliments when she tries to make her partner feel special by putting her partner dick in her mouth.
7. Not make her feel comfortable:
Sometimes a girl feels very uncomfortable when she is sucking her partner’s dick; there are many reasons behind it; one of the main reasons is that maybe it is her blowjob, or it is the first blowjob to her new partner. Girls also feel sometimes uncomfortable because of thinking, “Will her partner enjoy or feel excited while performing blowjob to him?”
When a girl sucking his partner dicks and feels not like comfortable, it may happen to choking and gagging that results in feeling like degrading. Girls do not wish to gag in front of her lover. That girl may not know how to suck dick? And she wouldn’t want to be fooled by her friends’ time.
8. Her partner directly cums in mouth:
Don’t assume that a girl likes cum in mouth if you directly ejaculate without telling her. Might your partner, not like this thing at all, and feel like degrading.
9. Girl feels like her partner not enjoying blowjob:
Girls might be feel like degrading when she sees like her partner are not enjoying her blowjob at all. A guy should show how much he likes by making some sexy horny sound, staring her eyes, touching her breast, touching her vagina and clit.
10. Her partner not getting orgasm:
Not every time a boy gets orgasm from blowjob because of some guys orgasm from intercourse and others from blowjob. Here it needs to understand that if her partner is not able to reach orgasm, it is not because of a girl; there are plenty of reasons why some men can not ejaculate from orgasm, and what is the difference between blowjob and intercourse.
11. Guy take so much time to ejaculate:
Girls feel like degrading if she is not getting any result that’s why interaction can help a lot here, I will discuss next why interaction is essential while a girl performs a blowjob. Because every guy takes their own time to reach orgasm but showing that you are enjoying in front of a girl can eliminate the chance of degrading.
Rather than thinking of why men take so much time to ejaculate, she further gives attention on pleasure, and if she feels happy, chances are she will enjoy instead of feeling like degrading.
12. Lack of Interaction:
Every ten out of four to five couple can ruin their relationship due to a lack of interaction in their sexual life. Suppose you can not tell your partner how she cooks or never complements her cooking, then how can she know about it. I think your girlfriend is not a magician or any spiritual guru that knows everything without telling her.
A guy should interact every moment of receiving a blowjob. Why? Because it helps to feel a girl that her partner is enjoying, and she immersed in blowjob so deep that you guys can not imagine. Feel when she licks your dick head and doesn’t control yourself if your body wants to make naughty sound, just free your body at least for this moment.
Don’t be shy that a boy could never make a sound like horny. I do not understand from a society point of view, why do girls have freedom in some things but not for boys? A girl can cry, but a boy can not. The fucking discriminating society 🙁
How to make a woman feel empowered while giving a blowjob?
If a woman feels like degrading while sucking his partner penis, then it is her partner’s responsibility to empowering her by doing below tips:
1. Show you love her:
Many guys never make feel his girls that he loves her, but it is not that he does not love her. While your girl wants to make, you feel like she loves her and she loves so much that she keeps your thing in her mouth and willing to do anything in the hope that you express love towards her.
Tell your partner how much you love her blowjob. How you enjoy that moment when she loves your dick? Do not try to keep love inside in your heart; staying inside will rot and lastly end.
2. Treat your girl like she is queen:
If you want to become king, then your partner should be the queen of you. If she makes you feel king by putting your dick in her mouth and showing respect and love to your dicks, it is your responsibility that you make her feel like a queen. Because if you make her feel like queen she try everything just for the satisfaction of her beloved. It becomes her responsibility to make you feel next-level pleasure and excitement.
3. Make her excited:
Don’t just show your dick to your girl and tell her to suck babe quickly! If you want to make your partner feel like empowering, you can firstly excite your partner then think about your pleasure, it’s not too difficult or time-consuming when a girl gets excited from her partner then you can’t imagine how much she will give you intense pleasure.
A girl is like an engine when you start the engine; then you don’t have to worry about everything. In this way, you can minimize to feel her like degrading rather than feeling sexy and enjoying performing blowjob. You can stimulate her by kissing her hands, showing how much you love her, and showing that her pleasure also matters.
Kissing her lips in the middle of a blowjob makes her feel very special, if you genuinely show love while receiving a blowjob from her, trust me guys, it definitely works.
4. Change the position:
The most submissive blowjob is knee position because a girl should be on their knees to suck his partner’s dick. Lots of girls enjoy this position but if your girl feel like degrading, you can try 69 position. It takes a mutual partnership to make each other feels stimulated.
5. Ask her about likes or dislikes:
Don’t become selfish; ask your girl what she likes most. Girls are submissive to her partner, but if you make feel her like that way, you can ruin her feelings. Most girls prioritize her partner’s needs. But if you try to perform a sexual activity that you have seen in porn, then keep in mind that you probably hurt your partner. Prioritize her feeling if you value her emotions about likes or dislikes and then remember this thing forever that she will also give you the same value about your likes and dislikes. Hurting her emotion and forcing her can only destroy your relationship.
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As a 67 year old man who likes to suck cock, I don’t see how it could ever be degrading. I know my tongue is making his cock harder as I swirl it around the head, and lick up and down the shaft. I know what feels good to a man, and concentrate on giving the most sensation possible with my mouth. I feel empowered to hold a man’s cock in my mouth, and to swallow his semen. Thankfully I have some regulars to feed me every week.