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Before answering this question, I want to tell you about men that cumming in a girl’s mouth is a pleasurable act for most guys. If your partner does not want to cum in your mouth, there may be numerous reasons, and if you encounter each of them, the chances are you can take his loads into your mouth after finishing this blog.

For those girl who is swallower and wants to takes his partner’s loads in her mouth. It is very pleasant thing to do with your partner. It may be something weird things that happen in the past with your partner. Maybe his ex did not like to swallow his cum.

Before making your partner ready to take his loads to swallow in your mouth. Ask yourself if you want to swallow his cum or want to do it because others are doing this. It must be clear in your mind why you really want to drink his cum. If you intend to give your partner pleasure by doing this, you can do it. But remember, some guys also do not like and hate doing these things if their partner performs it for him only.

The below reasons can help you identify why your lover does not want to cum in your mouth The below reasons are common and exciting.

1. They thought you do not like it:

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The first common reason most guys do not like to ejaculate in your mouth is they thought you do not like to swallow his cum. These things happened when your partner assumed that you would not enjoy or like to swallow his cum.

2. They think the taste of his cum is not good:

The second reason is valid in many ways, and it is good to think this way by your partner. Feeling like this shows that your partner is caring and love you a lot. If this is really an issue, you can improve the taste of his cum by improving some diet in his daily life. But most of the time, the taste is not worse. You can tell him by directly communicating with them that you love the taste of his cream and you want it.

3. Your partner is afraid of kissing after you taste the cum:

Some guys do not want to kiss their lover after they are swallowing his cum. The psychology behind this act is that they do not like the taste of their own cum and do not want to taste it. They love kissing their partner after sex, but they do not allow themselves to kiss after just cumming in your mouth. Just like the case of some women who do not like to taste their own pussy after vaginal intercourse.

4. His last experience in the blowjob was not good:

Maybe his last girlfriend did not interested to taste his cum or react negatively when he ejaculated his cum in her mouth. There are high possibilities that swallowing his cum was terrible for his ex-partner. His past partner did not know the benefits of swallowing and tasting the cum. He was afraid of his previous experience, which was not so good, and they are afraid in your case too. They do not want to lose you by ejaculating his cum in your mouth. It’s a great sign that your partner loves you so much.

5. Afraid of your adverse reaction:

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Your partner may be afraid of your negative reaction because some guys do not even get a blowjob from their partner. Your partner is lucky because you want to swallow his cum, but not all girls want to swallow their partner’s cum.

6. After ejaculation, some men feel guilty:

If a girl is really wants to receive his loads in her mouth, then there is a very small possibility that your may feel guilty. The question is why they feel guilty after ejaculating in your mouth; the answer is straightforward if a girl receives his loads with a smile and happily, then their partner may not feel guilty, but most girls spit her partner’s cum just after taking his loads. This type of act can worse impact on your partner’s brain. That’s why it becomes necessary to be happy when you are going to suck your partner’s dick.

How to tell your partner that you love to swallow his cum?

There are numerous ways you can tell your partner that you love to swallow his cum. The best and simple way to tell your partner is through direct communication with your partner. It may be weird for most couples because there is a communication gap in a relationship that is not good for any relationship. Don’t worry if you are shy to tell your partner; the below methods can be efficient for you:

1. Tell him directly you love to swallow:

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The first and foremost thing you can do to tell your partner is to tell your partner directly. The secret of any good relationship is to communicate with each other. Remember the golden word “communication is the key in every relationship”

2. At the time of ejaculation, hold his dick tightly:

You can tell your partner when your partner will finish the blowjob by holding his cock and saying to him that you want his loads and you love to receive his tasty semen. Tell in the sexy tone and show him that you really wish to his cum anyhow. This method can help you a lot because you can directly tell your partner in the last moment of the blowjob, and most guys want this offer. There are fewer chances that your partner reject this offer.

You can follow the below steps to get a better result from this method:

  1. This method can be beneficial when your partner is going to cum.
  2. First, you need to identify his body response whether he is going to ejaculate or not.
  3. His breathing and heartbeat increase rapidly.
  4. The balls of his penis become harder.
  5. The shaft of the penis also becomes harder.
  6. When the above signs match in your partner, proceed to the next steps.
  7. Hold his cock firmly with your hand.
  8. Stroke his penis.
  9. Lick his penis head.
  10. Before few moments of ejaculation, now tell him in a sexy tone, ” Baby, please cum in mouth, I am eager to take your loads.” and start moaning at the same time.

This type of tone, along with words, can also stimulate your partner’s pleasure. You can also tell him aggressively with a naughty manner; you might hear or see in porn movies. It will surely help you to get his loads in your mouth.

3. Don’t take him too long:

If you are teasing your partner too much, then it can be frustrating for him. This is one of the reasons a lot of guys try to persuade you in a nice way. Some girls really make their partner wait too long. Some guys do not want too much teasing from their partner during the blowjob.

4. Your partner sees you as a nice girl:

Being a nice girl in front of your partner is good but try to be a nice girl on the outside and brutally slutty inside. Tell your partner that you are not a nice girl and you want to become his slutty pet during the blowjob. If you are afraid to lose your respect when you become sluttier in front of him, you are wrong then. The more dirty blowjob you give, the better the blowjob for your partner. Your partner will love you and never want to lose you if you feel him as a king during the blowjob.

Try to become the slutty during the blowjob. Try to act naughty, moan loudly, and say dirty words. This will definitely work for him. Try it once. Some guys think if they ejaculate in your mouth, there are strong possibilities you dislike it and hate it. Just show using your act that you love to swallow his cum and also enjoy his taste of cum.

Change the impression in front of your partner. It is essential to show that you are slutty during the blowjob, don’t think that your partner will not respect you if you become sluttier in front of him. Remember the very famous quote in the blowjob, “The more you being sluttier in the blowjob, the more your partner will love you.”. It will also help to boost your relationship.

5. Tell him in the mid of the blowjob:

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You can do another easy thing if you hesitate to follow the above methods. You can tell him in the middle of the blowjob in a very sexy and naughty tone that ” baby, please finish the blowjob in my mouth by giving your creamy tasty loads”.

6. Choose the right position:

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If you really want to take his loads into your mouth and want your partner to finish the blowjob in your mouth, you can choose the best position that directly helps you the way you want. The most preferred position for this situation is the sixty-nine position. This position will not help you to take his loads but also helps your partner to explore your sexy body at the same time. There is numerous position you can try according to your comfort.

7. Tell him that tasting his cum really turn on you:

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Some girls experience it; even my girlfriend turned on when she received my loads into her mouth. If this situation happens to you and it really turns on you into horny, telling your partner is a must. Your partner should know this if they are afraid to cum into your mouth.

Finish The blowjob by swallowing and saying to your partner that his cum is very delicious and excited to taste many times.

Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, Co-Founder, and blogger at learnblowjob.com. I love to figure out myths and facts about giving and receiving a blowjob through personal experience and research.

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