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Are you one of those who struggle to get a blowjob from their wife? I know it is very frustrating. You already have a permanent sex partner but still not getting a blowjob, this is an awful experience. But don’t worry you are not the only one in this world who is suffering from this. There are many men like you on this planet.

Hey, but I can tell you one thing. Just be with me till the last of this blog and I assure you that you will have a good improvement. I can guarantee you that you will get the blowjob tomorrow by reading my blog but you will have a good result (After all I am not a magician, yeah but I want to be🥰). So, let me start your drill so can please your women to give you a mind-blowing blowjob…

I will divide the blog into two sections. First will be the reasons why she says directly no to the blowjob and then will come to the things you can to motivate her for a blowjob. At last, there is something that is like magic. I am not a magician but still have something magical for you. So, get ready to put magic in your life. 🤗

Possible Reasons why she is not interested in giving you a blowjob:

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There is a root question that is more important than making her ready for the blowjob. Why is she not ready? What is the possible reason that is causing this issue? Let’s talk about it. There is some common reason that makes many women stuck at the situation where they don’t want to give blowjob. Let me describe each of them and tell you what to do about that.

Because before motivating her for the blowjob, first, you need to clear her doubts about these issues.

1. The hygiene routine

There is one very natural fact that women are more hygienic than men. Exceptions are always there, but I am talking about the mass audience. And as you asked that she is your wife, then she already knows about your hygiene routine. And this makes her feel that you are dirty, and how can she take you dirtiest part in her mouth. At least, this is what she thinks.

So, to change her mind first, you need to change your routine. Make her feel that you are taking care of your hygiene properly. Bath daily, wash your hands properly when you get out of the bathroom, and do regular hygiene. Keep your pubic hair groomed. make her feel that you clean every part of your body, even those parts that she knows about privately. 😉

2. The smell of your thing

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Some women don’t like the smell of the penis. So, if your lady has this issue, then the solution is connected to the above point, hygiene. The scent is not something that you can take care of in one day. It is something that gets tackled with a good cleaning routine. Keep your pubic area trimmed so that your down area does not smell due to fungus. Maintain a daily washing routine; whenever you ejaculate properly, clean your penis (especially penis head) with water.

And yes, there is a quick fix. You can use perfumes to make it smell good, but it is a temporary solution. So, you must keep your cleaning game on. By the way, I have explained the smelling issue well here. If you want, you can read it in detail.

3. She doesn’t like the taste.

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Taste is very important. If anything is going into the mouth, the flavor becomes a very important factor like I don’t like the taste of bitter gourd. But trust me, if someone converts its flavor to a chocolate flavor, this can be on my top favorite list. We are about to do the same. If your wife doesn’t like the taste of your penis, then let’s cover it with some good flavor.

You can use some edibles like chocolate, ice cream, or some other creamy flavor. This will make your penis tasty and edible. Or, you can use some flavored lubes. The lubes are safe to eat and are delicious. I have selected some good and safe flavored lube for you. The plus benefit of using lubes while blowjob is that it gives her a good taste and gives you some extra pleasure due to some extra slobby blowjob.

4. She may have had a bad experience in the past.

I am talking about the reasons why she is not getting ready for the blowjob. So, this is also one of the reasons. I know she is your wife, but she can have a bad experience with a blowjob in her past. But you can’t do anything about her history. But yes, the present is in your hand. You can give her a good experience with the blowjob. If she enjoyed it, then trust me, she will be the one who will ask first for the blowjob.

So, I will suggest you don’t ask her about her experience instead of focusing on the present. Learn the things how you can make her feel good while having a blowjob.

What, what you thought in mind?… How will you learn the things to make her feel good?

Don’t worry; I am here for you. Just keep reading; I will cover everything one by one in the blog. 🙂

5. She doesn’t know how to do it

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This is a very common reason why many women don’t want to give blowjobs. The fear of performing a nasty blowjob makes them say direct no. They think that what if you don’t like it. This can be the reason why your wife is not getting ready for the blowjob. If this is the issue, then try to teach her. Tell her that you will guide her if you can.

Or, you can gift her a blowjob training guide. By this, she can get the theoretical knowledge of a great blowjob and can taste it on you. A blowjob guide is a good option because you can’t teach her as much as a guide can. You should try this blowjob training guide. Gift her and see the magic. 😉

Things you can do to make her ready for the blowjob:

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Above are the hurdles that are stopping her in the BJ journey. But that does not mean that these are enough to make her ready for a blowjob. Let’s assume that you have clarified the issues that she had but now she is in a neutral phase. Why would she give you a blowjob is still a question for her. What is there for her in a blowjob? So, this section of the blog will give you the idea to make her interested in a blowjob.

1. Ask her politely for a Blow job

Let’s start with the basic manner. Talk to her. Tell her about your feelings. Tell your half one that you will feel good if she does it for you. Ask her politely. This is something that you can’t force. The blowjob will be great only when she starts enjoying it. Otherwise, you can put your meat in any hole, why the mouth is so important? This is because she can do some incredible things with her mouth but she will only do it when she enjoys it.

So, your target should not be to get a blowjob. Your target should be to make her enjoy the blowjob. Trust me, it is the key to a perfect blowjob.

2. Sometimes the incentives can do the magic

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Asking for the blowjob is your first responsibility but if that didn’t work then you should try giving her some incentives. Incentives like, you will go down to her if she does it for you. Or, if she is a housewife then wash dishes for her so, she can get some free time. You can take care of your children for the whole day.

She is your wife, and you know better than me; what can be a great offer for her she can’t reject. So, try it. This trick works for many. Who knows that it can be your key to happiness.

3. Seduce her before asking for the Bj

You can say that it is a tip. Don’t ask her anytime for a blowjob. Definitely, she will say no. First seduce her. Turn her on. When she gets totally mad for your thing then offer her your penis to suck. In this case, the chances are definitely higher than the normal one. At this time you can offer her that you will get down to her if she does it for you.

Or, you can go down first so she feels it. Let her feel the pleasure first and then it will be your turn.

4. It is not about you only

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As I am constantly telling you this, it is not about you only. You both should enjoy the act. She must enjoy it too, otherwise, she will not do it again. If you want her to give you a blowjob again and again then find a way to make her enjoy it.

Let me give you some ideas about how she can enjoy while giving you a blowjob. Blowjob itself is an enjoyable thing for women. It is something that pleases them mentally. But at the start, she will not enjoy it. So, at the start, you need some external things to make her enjoy the act. With time she will start enjoying the blowjob itself.

The very first thing is the flavored lubes. This will give her a pleasing taste she can enjoy while sucking.

And the second thing you can do is to get into a 69 position. While she is sucking you, you start licking her. This will give her sexual pleasure and will keep teasing her. She will enjoy it. Do it with passion. 😉

Now the final and the most pleasing one. Use some sex toys that you can control. What I mean is to use a remote-controlled vibrator. Put that in her pussy and ask her to suck. When she does a good job then keep the vibrator at a low pace (pleasing for her) and as she does something that you don’t like then increase the speed (hard to handle). This is a great act and you both will enjoy it. Give it a try.

Tip: You can use a remote controlled vibrating toy like B-Vibe Rimming Plug (recommended) or any other remote contolled vibrating toy as per your preference.

5. Ask her before exploding

If you want her to come back to give you a blowjob then never explode in her mouth without asking. Ask her first because some women start vomiting. So, first, ask her if she wants it or not. Then act as per that. Give her some time. If you explode in her mouth the very first day then this can be a bad experience for her. And you are smart enough to know that what can be the result of a bad experience.

Tip: If she agrees to receive your cum in her mouth and if your semen taste is not good then she will not agree again. So, it is extremely important that you work on your semen taste. Eat pineapple as much as you can because it makes your semen tasty.

6. Show love even when you are done

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The last one but very important. Don’t get away as you are done. Show her some love even after that. If you get away as you are done then this gives a bad signal to her. So, be with her even being finished because it makes her feel good. And if she feels good now then she will make you feel good next time.

Finalizing:

So, these are the basic things you can do to make your wife ready for a blowjob. Things I just told you will help you make her ready and keep it coming again and again. But these are just the basic things. There is so much you can do to make any girl ready for a blowjob.

Yes, the above is not a typo…literally I mean any girl.

If you wanna know those all methods to make any women ready then you should check out Bj-Powerplay. It is the power to get a blowjob anytime, anywhere. At least give it a try…because the testimonials they have shows an awesome picture. 🤤

Sam Kryplone

Hey! This is Sam. The Co-owner of Learnblowjob.com. I love to write about relationship stuff. But I want to confess one thing that I am not any so-called relationship expert. I write everything on the basis of my internet research and my real-life experience or the experience with my past relationships. So, read and have fun.

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