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Hey dude! I know how bad it feels if someone refuses to do so. In that case, we guys start feeling degraded. We start to doubt ourselves. My first girlfriend was one of them. She never did that for me. But don’t worry, it is normal. You don’t need to doubt yourself. Some girls do not like to give a blowjob because they think it is degrading, unrespectful or dirty for them. There can be many reasons which make them feel bad about this. So, in this blog, we will fight with all of these problems and will identify who are them.

Reasons why she doesn’t like to go down

There can many reasons why she doesn’t like to blow you. And this is not her fault only. Generally, our mindset totally depends on our surroundings. So, her surroundings, her upbringing, her friend’s thinking, and many other factors work here. Some of the reasons are below:

1. You never ask her properly

The first thought comes to mind is that have you ever asked her properly for a blowjob. Or you just assumed that she will never do that. I am saying this because many girls don’t agree when you ask her casually while talking. But when you get serious and emotional then they get ready to go down.

So, if you never got serious in front of her, then this is the time. Its good to be light and funny, but not always. So, this is the time dude. Go and ask her seriously that you love to spend time with her and tell him that you like to do. Don’t force her. Keep it a little light and dive into it.

2. She is afraid of something

afraid of something

yes this is true that she if afraid of something. There can be many reason which make her get afraid. some of the common are:

  • Girls get afraid of swallowing: Most of the girls don’t like to swallow your juice. But we men think that they love it. Yes, it is true that some girls love to do so, but not all. And it’s not our fault that we think like this. This is because of the porn we watch from our teenage. Those sexy chicks made us feel that every girl is greedy for hot white cum.
    But this is just a misconception. No one likes it on her first day that you put your sticky thing in her mouth. She can love it but later. So, I want you to first throw this crap out of your mind. And start from zero. Let her walk first later make her ready for the race.
  • Girls get afraid of huge things: Ya I know that we all men think to have a big boner. But when it comes to a blowjob than sometimes girls get afraid of a big thing. And I will say that it is normal. Just think, If you have to continuously blow a big cucumber in your mouth then how will you feel. The same thing is with girls. So, if you have a big boner then don’t try to put it deep. Go easy.
  • Some girls think that she will lose her virginity: Yes it sounds funny but true. Many girls think that she can lose her virginity while dining blowjob. And I think their worry is totally worthy. Not directly but indirectly they are true. We boys are totally badass. And we all know that ae all are bad from inside. This thing is in our blood so we will try to get laid. And this is what she is afraid of.
    Another reason is she doubts herself. She thinks that she will lose her control over herself. And start the game by herself. So, the simple solution for this, go and talk to her. Know what is in her mind and tell her that nothing will happen like this.

3. Her religion

khajuraho sex temple

This is another reason. If she believes too much in her religion then this can be one issue. Many girls stick to their religious words so tightly that they ignore all your words. And this is a little tough to tackle this issue because all of her misconceptions are very old. She will never belive your new theory.

So, to fight this issue you have to use some ancient history proofs. Why don’t you show her that her religion totally allows her to get fun? Go and search for her religion. What it says about sex and blowjobs. For example, India has many temples that show and represent many forms of sex in their sculptures. Their temples have a long history of sex in their religion. Some of those temples are Khajuraho temples, Sun temple of Modhera and Bhoramdeo Temples. So, it’s better that you research yourself and convince her with these.

4. She has a very bad experience with going down

It may be possible that she has a very bad experience with blowjob in her past. Maybe she was very bad at it or her partner could be rough to her. Anything is possible. If she really has any bad past then she will definitely hesitate to go down. Tell her that everything is under control. No need to worry about the result. Tell her to only enjoy the process, no matter whats the result. Whatever it be, good or bad… You will guide her till last.

5. She thinks it will hurt her pride

hurting of pride

Many women think that giving a blowjob can hurt her pride. Giving a blowjob means making down to man. And she don’t like to get degraded. Blowjob is all about the submission to a man. And she will not do it till she get confirmed that it will not degrade her pride. This is why many girls ask their partner to go down to her. They want that you eat her out. So, this makes the score to equal.

If you are someone who don’t like to go down to a girl then how can you expect that she will do it for you. So, if you want a blowjob then first throw your ego out that you will not do the same. It is all about give and take. You will get in return what you give to her. Show her some love then she will do it herself. Because forcing for something will never last long.

6. Hygiene problem

Every girl knows that what you do with your penis. You pee through it and also cum. So she thinks about her hygiene. What if those pee will be harmful to her. And this is why she will never do it. Now what? If she thinks like this then what will you do now?

Go and tell her that you properly clean yourself. Don’t just tell her, actually keep yourself clean. Always trim the hair of your private part. Keep it always clean. Show her the benefits of taking sperm in mouth. This will make her get ready for what you want. To know the benefits of blowjob check out the below article.

What are the benefits of a woman sucking a man’s penis?

7. She don’t know how to do it

how to do it

This is common among the newbies. Those girls who have never done it before or those who have a very bad experience in their past. These girls generally doubt themselves. Each of these girls thinks that she is very bad at blowjob. And this can be true. Because blowjob is not as simple as it seems. There are many techniques and points which make a blowjob awesome. To be a blowjob queen one have to learn those all.

As she practices them she gets batter at these. If you have a very good experience in blowjobs then you should teach her, what you like or not. Or, you can gift her a training course which will make her a blowjob queen. Here is my suggestion for an awesome blowjob training program that is worth your money. So, teach her or she will learn it from somewhere else.

8. Only bad girls do it

She thinks this because she was taught from her childhood that only bad girls do these types of things or good girls never do these. This stigma is such powerful that it is very tough to break into. Show her that this is normal. Everyone does this. There is an irony in our surrounding. If you are unmarried and you do these things with someone then you are a bad girl. But just after the marriage it is totally normal. Isn’t it funny 🙂 . Convenience her that it is totally normal and you are all done.

9. Some girls don’t like to gag

Some girls are afraid of gagging. We all are inspired by porn from our childhood. And we all know how rough gagging looks in a porn video. And these rough looks make her afraid of blowjob. She starts thinking that what if you started doing so. This can hurt her and she directly says no to all of your pleasant dreams.

10. You take too long to finish

man screaming with pleasure

Are you someone who require some extra effort to finish. If you are not then skip this point. But if you are the one then is also a problem. Working for a long time on your boner can make her jaws pain. She will get tired and start feeling uncomfortable. So, she should use her hand a lot because you are a beast and she should not take it in the mouth all the time.

11. Your taste is very bad

I know this seems a little surprising but it’s true. Every man has a different taste of their man juice. And this matters a lot to her. If your cum tastes very bad then she will never get back to you. Why will she work so much on you if she is getting a horrible taste as a result? So, it’s better to make your milk taste better. Go and eat some fruit and fruit juice. These make your semen tasty. Read the below blog to make your semen taste better.

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The ultimate guide to make any girl ready for a blowjob

So, now you know that what are the reasons that make her hate blowjob. There can be many reasons but I have covered as possible. You can see that I have also provided the possible solution as per her issue. But what If I say that I have a full guide which will make any girl ready for blowjob. Read the below blog to make any girl ready for a blowjob.

Sam Kryplone

Hey! This is Sam. The Co-owner of Learnblowjob.com. I love to write about relationship stuff. But I want to confess one thing that I am not any so-called relationship expert. I write everything on the basis of my internet research and my real-life experience or the experience with my past relationships. So, read and have fun.

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