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So your partner is behaving like weird as if he has made a mistake by receiving a blowjob from you. At the time of exhaustion, it might feel like at the beginning of sex life. You have to know the root cause before making any judgment.

There are many reasons your partner behave like weird after blowjob:

  • Maybe it is his first blowjob
  • He is taking a lot of stress
  • He is not comfortable with you
  • He comes too fast
  • He takes so much time to ejaculate
  • His sexual interest disappear after ejaculation
  • He does not know how to react
  • He does not want a blowjob from you
  • You don’t know how to give blowjob

In this blog, I will cover the above points in very detail and try you to aware of the facts about why he is facing this situation in front of you. And after completing reasons in detail, I will also mention some points that help him overcome this situation.

Every man is greedy for a blowjob, and very few ones are not interested in getting a blowjob, but wait, it does not mean that he has never liked. He does not like blowjob maybe because his experience is terrible; otherwise, if you are a pro sucker, 99.9 percent guys will go crazy and will do anything to get a blowjob from you.

According to my research and my point of view, there are nine reasons why your partner acts so weird after blowjob:

1. Maybe it is his first blowjob:

Everyone is nervous in their first blowjob, and it is natural. Feeling nervous means you are not yet mature to face this situation, hence spoiling it by mistakenly. Your blowjob may not be the first, but your partner may be the first. This situation makes him act like that. In this type of situation, you can not do anything instead of relaxing him.

2. Your partner is taking a lot of stress:

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There can be many reasons for concern like he does not know how to act. He is feeling shameful because your partner ejaculates very quickly, or his sexual interest disappears after his ejaculation. I’ll discuss these points later in this blog. Talking with your partner can help a lot to reduce his press. You have to tell him that he has not come in any examination that he has to pass the exam.

3. Your partner is not comfortable with you:

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At the time of blowjob maybe, he is not comfortable in front of you, or he may have a fantasy that he wants to tell you, but he does not know that how to tell you that. Due to his shyness, he is not going to tell you which types of blowjob he preferred. In this type of situation, you have to figure out your partner’s desire. 

4. He comes too fast:

There is no average fixed time for a guy to ejaculate and how long he will take time to ejaculate. But sometimes, if a boy ejaculates within two minutes of blowjob, he may feel that there is something wrong in him, and he cannot face you after blowjob, which makes him act like weird. He does not want to look strange after blowjob, but it happens naturally, and there is no control of him. 

Try to convince him that it happens in the initial time of sex when he never receives a blowjob from any girl in his whole life. These problems that I don’t think that this is a problem is the beginning stage. Tell him he gradually recovers from it.

5. He takes so much time to ejaculate:

Like cum within a few minutes is not a problem sometimes same as taking too much time is not a problem. Whatever the average time of ejaculation of blowjob, the most important thing is sometimes taking too much time from blowjob is also considered as normal. Maybe your guys won’t ejaculate from blowjob. There is no bad thing in it because there are lots of differences between blowjob or sex

When some men are unable to ejaculate from blowjob because they feel that they do not get the tightness that they get in the sex, there are many reasons guys unable to ejaculate or do it late, and it does not mean that you have problems or cannot do it properly.

6. His sexual interest disappears after ejaculation:

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Almost every guy feel exhaustion after ejaculation. They need some time to recover. But at the time of the initial stage of their sexual life. They even do not know that it is entirely natural and doesn’t have to worry about this. When they first-time ejaculate in front of the girl. They do not figure out, asking himself, “what do I do after ejaculation.” That’s why sometimes they spoil it by making weird faces.

It takes some time to recover sexual energy after ejaculating from blowjob. In those times, the guy does not know what they should do; they feel like they have lost sexual interest towards you that makes him guilty. It is not that if it is finished, then it will not come again. It takes little time to recover their sexual interest as well as sexual energy.

7. He does not know how to react:

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When you and your partner are in a new relationship with each other, it might take some time to get frank. Sometimes he will be ashamed of you, sometimes you will be ashamed of him and this will go on many couple of days. Slowly- Slowly, you both open for each other. When you perform a sexual activity in the initial days of your relationship, you might face this type of awkwardness after sexual activity. 

The most strange thing is that if your partner takes your first time with you briefly and did not have any girlfriends before, he will be confused about how to act after any sexual activity, no matter whether it is blowjob or sex.

8. He does not want a blowjob from you:

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So the matter has reached here that your boyfriend does not want to take a blowjob from you. Just joking. Let get depth into this reason why your boyfriend does not wish to blowjob from you. The answer is simple, maybe your partner has some terrible blowjob experience which he is unable to forget, but whenever you give him a blowjob, he won’t refuse you for doing this, but his past experience will not let him leave. 

But every time it is not the same reason, there is a lot of other reasons for not taking a blowjob from you.

9. You don’t know how to give blowjob:

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Bitter truth! Maybe you don’t know how to give blowjob to your partner because many girls think that they already know better than most girls. The reality is different from your thought; you will be surprised to know that very few girls know how to give blowjob.

There are three stages of performing blowjob:

If you are a beginner stage of blowjob, you have to learn some necessary skills to give your partner a good blowjob. 

You should have to practice blowjob . You can practice with a dildo or banana that can help your lips, tongue, and mouth make you disciplined and be sucking dick of your partner. This practice can help you a lot.

If you are in the intermediate stage of blowjob, you will become a pro sucker. To become pro sucker, you have to complete the beginner stage of blowjob, and if you feel that you have risen above the beginner stage of blowjob, then you come to the intermediate stage where you will be able to become a pro sucker.

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If you are in advance stage of blowjob, maybe you should argue me here that you are at an advanced stage in blowjob, but for the fact, there are only a few girls that exist in this stage. Most girls existed in an intermediate stage of blowjob or beginner stage of blowjob.

How to help him to get rid of acting weird in front of you?

There are many ways through which you can change their strange behavior after blowjob:

1. Make him feel comfortable: 

You have to ask likes or dislikes to make him feel comfortable. You also have to improve your communication and interaction, which I will discuss next.

2. Watch porn together:

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Do you think that if you are in such a relationship without communicating about sex and start having explicit sex, then how much will it be getting awkward without sharing anything related to sex?

Watching porn can highlight your dirtier and hornier side of your partner. Even today, I remember my first relationship when I could not talk about sex and never share any adult things with my girlfriend because of my lack of interaction and communication. But due to shyness, I had to feel so embarrassed because of that.

Do you know why sex is considered wrong before love or getting to know each other because if you do not know that person with whom you are going to have sex, then just think what will be like?

It is very awkward of some guys, and you have seen the result. I know every time most men and women are just taking their clothes off and start having sex without even know each other, and that is ok. But just think of those guys who will not be going to win a war without knowing you completely.

That’s why I recommend you both to watch porn together. When you share your real naughty and sexy side, it will be beneficial for both of you.

3. Improve communication and interaction:

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Every relationship needs proper communication and has good interaction while performing any sexual activity. In this case, when you improve your interaction while sucking his cock can also make him frank.

Remember, communication and interaction sometimes come together. If you are sharing your likes or dislikes and he will do the same, then there are very good chances to support your interaction and when you perform a blowjob and try to interact with him. But you can’t expect that they will do automatically. Yes, this also comes naturally but depends on your relationship’s nature and time.

The best way to improve communication and interaction with your partner is:

  • When you talk to him, listen to his words.
  • Support him.
  • Make him laugh. 
  • Do small things together. 
  • Share problems with each other
  • Experiment with yourself 🙂

4. Try to interact with your partner while giving blowjob:

When you perform blowjob to your partner, try below tips:

  • make him start communication
  • being dirtier is great sometimes while giving blowjob.
  • ask him how he feels
  • ask him to how to give him intense pleasure
  • try to finish blowjob like a pro

5. Don’t try to suck deep for the first time:

Sometimes you both are in a new relationship, and for girls, it is difficult to suck his dick deeper. Don’t try to suck your partner penis deeper if you can’t because it will make you gag that sometimes awkward for you as well as your partner. That’s why I mentioned earlier in the blog to practice with dildo or banana before performing deep in front of your partner.

6. Improve Yourself:

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You can improve your sucking skills by taking help from an expert. Check out our suggestion where you will get to know how to become a pro sucker and make your partner crazy. There are many things in our suggestion, how to adopt winner attitude inside you, an expression that matters most in almost every blowjob and bundle of secret sauce. You must try our suggestion, and I bet you’ll love it and learn a lot from that course.

Thank you very much for giving so much valuable time to this blog. Hope you’ll get your answer.

Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, Co-Founder, and blogger at learnblowjob.com. I love to figure out myths and facts about giving and receiving a blowjob through personal experience and research.

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