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So your partner is cumming within two minutes during a blowjob, and you are upset because you feel that it is because of you. You think that you are not a good sucker. If your guy is ejaculating within two minutes does not mean that you are a lousy sucker. Maybe you have a magic tongue, and due to this, your partner can not control his orgasm 😉 Most women get upset because their partner won’t ejaculate quicklyI don’t know the exact reason why you want him to stay longer, but the most common reason is you want to have sex after blowjob.

A guy ejaculates within two minutes or less because maybe it is his first blowjob from you, or your partner is super sensitive. There is also a chance that your partner is considering precum as cum or your partner is suffering from precum ejaculation.

You don’t have to worry; maybe your partner is entirely normal. You just need to reverse the blowjob technique; I will tell you in this blog how you can make your partner last longer in blowjob using reverse blowjob technique and other useful tips. Before helping your partner, you first need to find out the truth, why this happened to your partner. 

In this blog, I will cover the reasons behind ejaculation within two minutes and explain how you and your partner can improve.

Reasons for ejaculation within two minutes:

1. It does not mean that your partner doesn’t enjoy it:

There is an infrequent possibility that your partner is ejaculating quickly because he does not enjoy your blowjob. If your partner does not really enjoy your blowjob, they have to push himself to ejaculate during the blowjob. If you are a bad sucker, then he takes enough time to get out of his orgasm and won’t ejaculate from blowjob

2. Do not blame yourself:

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First of all, just don’t blame yourself that this is because of you, and you are not a good sucker. Yes, but there are also possibilities that you have been giving him so much excitement that he cannot control himself. You have to follow the reverse blowjob technique, which I will discuss later in the blog. If you feel that you are not a good sucker you should check out our suggestion.

3. Maybe this is his first time: 

There is a lot of difference between solo masturbation than doing sex with your partner. The sensation is different in both cases. When your partner has his first time receiving a blowjob, then cumming within two minutes is possible and also considered as normal. At the first time of receiving a blowjob, the body produces so much sensation that your partner can not control it.

4. Maybe he thinks his precum as cum:

If this is your partner’s first time receiving a blowjob, your partner might consider his precum as cum. Or perhaps you feel that your partner’s precum as cum, but keep in mind that the main difference between cum and precum is that if he shoots his loads, he will shoot three to five times, but there is no shoot in precum of loads exists. After cumming from blowjob or any sexual activity, your partner’s dick becomes floppy and soft. 

5. Super hot situation:

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If your partner ejaculates within two minutes or less, maybe there is a very hot situation for your partner. He becomes so excited because of you or the environment. Even if he feels uncomfortable, he will ejaculate quickly. 

How to make your partner last longer in blowjob?

There are a few fantastic tips that you can make your partner last longer if you follow or implement them.

1. Reverse your blowjob technique:

Reversing blowjob technique means you have to short out stimulation in every aspect of your blowjob technique. You have to pay less attention to your partner’s dick like suck his dick with less pressure and focus on foreplay before sucking cock. Licking his anal if you are comfortable with your partner.

You just have to pay more attention to other parts of your partner’s body. You have to make your partner prepared to control his orgasm.

2. Pay less attention to his dick:

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Don’t just take his pants off and start sucking. Your partner needs to learn to warm up. You should have to tease your partner lightly before sucking his dick. 

3. Touch his dick lightly:

While sucking your partner’s dick, you need to put very light pressure on it. I also advise you to touch lightly before sucking his cock. Touch his dick with your hands or play lightly with his dick for at least five minutes, then start sucking softly.

4. Suck his penis with less pressure:

In my most articles, I recommended girls to suck harder with lipsbut here is the opposite, and if you suck your partner’s dick with so much pressure, you need to avoid putting hard pressure. Suck your partner’s dick very lightly like you are just playing with your mouth.

5. Sucking and licking his balls:

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There are tremendous benefits of licking and sucking your partner’s balls. Their dick becomes harder, but he won’t ejaculate from this. Your partner feels so much intense stimulation while you are sucking and licking his dick. In this way, your partner gets prepared to receive a blowjob from you.

Check out: How to give a good blowjob? to know more about sucking and licking your partner’s balls.

6. Try analingus:

It is optional; most girls hate to do this. I agree with so many girls that their partner is not clean and feels like vomiting if performing analingus. But if your partner seems clean to you, this is the right time to perform analingus to your partner. In analingus, you need to lick his anal with your tongue as deep as you can. Put pressure on your partner’s hips and lick it. You don’t have to touch or jack off your partner while licking his ass. 

7. Tell him to stop watching porn:

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In our society, porn really impacts very badly in each of our lives. Premature ejaculation mostly comes from watching so much porn. If you use porn as a tool or as a tutorial, it will really help you, but if you are addicted to porn and masturbate in front of watching porn videos, it can badly affect your sexual health. Tell your partner to stop watching porn altogether for a few days. 

8. Do stacking:

This process is a little bit dangerous, but your partner will love it and help get rid of your partner to ejaculate quickly. If you don’t know what is stacking, then let me explain first,

Stacking means you build-up orgasm then before reaching your partner an orgasm; you slow down and then stop for a few moments.” 

To do stacking, you need to suck your partner’s dick until he reaches orgasm, and before reaching orgasm, stop it for a few seconds, start again, do it two times, and see the result. You can read more about stacking by clicking here.

9. Do some foreplay:

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Kissing your partner’s chest, his navel, his neck is best before sucking his dick. Why foreplay before blowjob is essential here, Maybe you don’t know, but foreplay before any sexual activity can boost and enhance the performance. It helps your partner. So next time when you will be going to suck his cock, start the engine first 😉

10. Tell him to do kegel exercise:

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Kegel exercise can also help your partner control his orgasm for a few minutes; well, kegel exercises are beneficial for both urine and orgasm control. Your partner must have to try kegel exercise. Kegel Exercise is like training to control your orgasm for a few moments more, and this exercise really works excellent.

11. Jack off your partner:

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Maybe before receiving a blowjob, your partner does not agree with you to masturbate. Most guys are masturbating without lubricant, and it hurts his penis. You have to jack off your partner with some lubricant for at least fifteen to twenty minutes before a blowjob can also help your partner control his orgasm.

Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, Co-Founder, and blogger at learnblowjob.com. I love to figure out myths and facts about giving and receiving a blowjob through personal experience and research.

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