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If a gift is a surprise, you will choose according to your choice but if the birthday boy already tells you that what they want as a gift then you must try to gift exactly the same as they tell you to do it. Your partner’s blowjob should be different if you already give him a blowjob so many times. A blowjob is the best gift for that couple who is newly involved in a relationship and thinking to explore sexuality with their partner.

A blowjob is the best gift if your partner recommends it; you can make his birthday blowjob memorable that he never forget by giving him a massage before a blowjob, put some whipped cream and chocolate syrup to his dick and suck it like you never suck before.

If you give a blowjob to your partner, it must be special and different from other blowjobs. You have to make it memorable by adding some special feeling. Before giving him a blowjob as a gift directly on his birthday, I recommend you make a plan or blueprint to follow on that day.

1. Ask him about his choice on the blowjob:

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If he already tells you that he would love it if you give him a blowjob on his birthday. Your partner already completes the first step. Move to the next step and ask which location they would like to have a blowjob on that day. Asking his favorite location and his favorite part of the blowjob that he wants from you on his birthday makes him turn on. This makes your partner so desperate to have a blowjob.

2. Make the environment ready:

a. Choose the location:

Choose the location where you and your partner feel comfortable. I recommend selecting the location where your partner wants, but if you hate or dislike something about his favorite location, add something that makes you feel comfortable but keeps in mind the location they choose matters to your partner. Don’t just spoil his special day by adding your location. If you have some problem with their favorite location, you can offer him a different place.

b. Arrange some lubricant:

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Giving a blowjob to your partner does not require any lubricant. But if you like, start a blowjob with some great handjob to activate him. The best handjob requires lubricant; most of the guys use lubricant as they frequently use lubricant during the masturbation. As a man, I accept that using lubricant feels extra stimulation during masturbation.

1. Choose lubricant:

It is crucial to choose the best lubricant which good in taste as well as in quality. But the taste is important in the lubricant; if the taste of lubricant is worst, you can vomit during giving a blowjob which is not good for both of you. If you will not enjoy it, how can you make it feel special to others? The last thing you need to consider while buying lubricant is to buy only those lubricant which is water-soluble. The taste and water solubility is the most important thing which is needed to be considered. You may like our suggestion.

c. Add some flavor:

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A birthday is incomplete without cake and chocolate. In this section, I will cover how can you make your favorite cock cake 😉 You need whip cream, which is used to make a cake and chocolate syrup during the blowjob; you need to put whip cream first and taste his dick like this is your cake; after finishing by licking of whip cream, you may add chocolate syrup to his dick. This will not only make you feel stimulating and make your partner’s dick taste better, but your partner will also feel orgasmic.

d. Play your partner’s favorite song:

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As you are relationship with your partner, you already know which is his favorite song. Men have so many choices on their favorite song but play only their favorite romantic song, giving you and your partner a boost before giving a blowjob.

e. Arrange candles and dim the light:

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You need to make the environment entirely romantic and try not to forget anything that makes his birthday gift look imperfect. You need to turn off the light but not make that environment dark. Remember, the location should be dim if you are going to perform in the room. Otherwise, consider according to your comfort. Arrange the candles and make the location super romantic.

3. Warm-up

Before starting the blowjob, you both need to be ready. Don’t start with the blowjob directly. Do some warm-up. If you are doing exercise, you already know that warm-up is significant in exercise; it boosts our energy. 

a. Do massage:

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Do some massage, don’t worry if you don’t know how to massage; it’s quite simple, and you can massage your partner. Just try to massage his body for at least 10 to 20 minutes. Massage before a blowjob is the best way to build up the sexual tension. It helps the whole body to be prepared for a blowjob.

How to massage?

  • Step 1: Start from back massage.
  • Step 2: Then, massage his legs.
  • Step 3: And last, massage his feet.
  • Step 4: At this point, you can light touches around his ass cock, and balls.
  • Step 5: Now the cock probably be rock hard; start the massage with some light pressure everywhere around his cock.
  • Step 6: Grab his balls softly and lick with your tongue.

4. Start with soft and slow:

The dick is already super hard; you just need to start sucking his dick softly and slowly. This is the best way to start the blowjob. The reason behind the slow and soft-start is this will turn him on, and it can draw out the pre-orgasm pleasure.

How to do start a blowjob with soft and slow

You need to first explore your partner’s body by spending few minutes.

  • Step 1: Start teasing your partner by kissing his nipples, belly, and waist, etc.
  • Step 2: Use your tongue around the head of his cock.
  • Step 3: Start licking his penis head softly.
  • Step 4: Now, licking his shaft and balls.

Do these steps till you both comfortable and enjoying the soft and slow part of the blowjob.

5. Make the blowjob rhythmic:

Suck your partner’s dick like a lollypop, and you will not stop yourself from sucking his cock. Moan and groan if it feels right to you. Moaning has also been influential when it comes naturally during the session.

Try a different position with your partner. There are enough blowjob sex positions for you available. You can explore it and select according to your choice.

6. Finish the game:

Now it’s time to finish the game. Increase the speed of your blowjob. As you already read that the blowjob should start from slow and soft but should be ended faster and harder. It helps your partner to getting stronger ejaculation. When your partner is going to ejaculate, try not to split the cum; it just spoils the whole hard work in a single moment.

Try to swallow every drop of his cum and if you do not like the taste of the cum, put his dick deep in your mouth to avoid tasting his cum. If you do not want to swallow his cum, learn how to finish the blowjob without swallowing his cum.

If you want to become the blowjob queen of your partner, you need to focus on your sucking techniques; just like other skills, a blowjob is a great skill to impress your partner. According to the expert’s survey, only 3 to 4 percent of women really know how to give the best blowjob and win their partner. You can try our suggestion to improve your blowjob technique.

Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, Co-Founder, and blogger at learnblowjob.com. I love to figure out myths and facts about giving and receiving a blowjob through personal experience and research.

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