This question varies from girl to girl. The more you practice the blowjob, the better you will become. Some girls become good significantly faster, but others take some extra time; this all depends on how you absorb your partner’s feeling when giving a blowjob to him. If you are really passionate about sucking your partner’s dick, no one stops you from becoming the blowjob queen of your partner.

You can be ok at blowjob after giving five or six blowjobs to your partner, but you will be great if you give at least fifteen blowjobs to your partner. But it takes time to master the blowjob, and it can take up to several years. You also have to practice on dildo to minimize the mistakes in front of your partner.

Every skill take some time like there is nothing in this world can grow within a day, special things takes time and till then you need to have some patience to safe you from distraction and negativity. In this blog, I will try to figure out the key points that help you to become good at blowjob.

1. Practice on dildo:

The best way to practice and overcoming the fear of failure in the blowjob is to practice on a dildo before giving a blowjob to your partner. You can try various types of the dildo which offers you comfort and also easy to practice. Practice on dildo or banana can be the best thing you can do to improve your blowjob. Not only you, everyone is afraid of failing in something. And if you fail in front of others you will feel more guilty than failing alone. So if you are interested to learn alone without spoiling your image in front of your partner then this suggestion is only for you.

2. It just a matter of time:

Everyone is different. Someone is a very fast learner and others can be a slow learner. Once Einstein said, “Everyone has a different timeline,” no matter where are you now, the important thing in learning any skill or thing is how much you are consistent. Consistency is the key to success. If you consistently focus on giving a blowjob to your partner, no one can stop you from becoming a blowjob queen. Everyone is afraid of failing that’s why most of us are not even start to learn any skill. Keep in mind that, unlike other skills, a blowjob is also a skill and you should learn with focus, passion and if possible also feel the sensation of your partner when you will be sucking. A blowjob is somehow a crucial factor for a better relationship. A blowjob can affect your relationship if you are a worse sucker.

3. Believe in yourself:

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Track your goal and measure your mistake can be effective to get better results and can be the best reason to hold in that skill without getting distracted and doubting yourself. This is our human nature if we not get the right result in anything our minds start getting distraction. If you doubt in yourself that you won’t able to learn things right, it can affect your learning and there are huge possibilities you will leave that skill even the progress is better. The first step to learn any skill is to believe in yourself. Believing power can not be underestimated in the direction of your goal.

4. Go slow:

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If you are a beginner, you need to avoid a fast blowjob at first. For example suppose you are learning piano and if you are playing fast, you will make more mistakes. The more you practice, the less chance you will make mistakes. When you are a beginner and only tried blowjob once or twice, you need to start sucking very slow. Start with slow also helps you to avoid getting mistakes. If you perform a fast blowjob at first, you may hurt your partner while accidentally use your teeth. If you don’t want to hurt your partner physically, you may start with very slow sucking. After finishing few blowjobs, you will surely give a faster blowjob as well.

5. Experiment a little:

You can start with a little experiment while sucking your partner’s dick. You can experiment with easy and beginner blowjob positions that surely help you to improve your blowjob. There is numerous blowjob technique you can also use to experiment in blowjob. In the blowjob technique, you can also start with easy which is applicable for beginners. Don’t start to give deepthroat at first. Deepthroating blowjob positions can be complex or difficult for most girls. Stay away from this type of blowjob position in the beginning.

6. Adopt winner attitude:

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If you adopt a winner attitude, you will learn fifty percent of blowjob. How to adopt a winner attitude while giving a blowjob to your partner? You have to make your partner feel like he is the king when giving a blowjob. You are the one who satisfies the need of your king because when your partner becomes the king, you will naturally become queen of your partner. The only queen has the power to give the blowjob to his king. Only you have the power to give intense pleasure to your partner. Adopting a winner attitude can make your blowjob easier to perform in front of your partner.

7. Suck his cock with passion:

When you adopt a winner attitude, you will automatically suck your partner’s dick passionately. If you do anything with your passion, you will naturally add the special ingredient to make that thing amazing. How you can add passion to the blowjob? It’s a lot easier than you think. You have to connect with your partner. You have to feel his body while giving a blowjob to your partner. You can also feel his energy. All these things make your blowjob passionate.

8. Don’t use your teeth:

You should avoid using teeth during a blowjob. I recommend forgetting about the existence of using teeth during the blowjob. You can cover your teeth using your lips to avoid touching on your partner’s dick. During the first few blowjobs, you need to be extra careful while giving a blowjob. The mistake can admit your partner into the hospital. You should play easily at first few blowjobs after that you can step up with a higher and complex blowjob.

9. Don’t afraid in the beginning:

Lock this point in your mind. Fear is the enemy of progress in any skill. No matter which reason can cause you to stop you from giving and practicing the blowjob. The reason should be resolve as soon as possible. It is natural to be afraid in the beginning and I think it is also important because the more you afraid of giving a blowjob to your partner the better you will be in blowjob.

10. Use your tongue:

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As I already discussed, you should cover your teeth using your lips to avoid touching your teeth during the blowjob. The one more step that you should use your lips in the beginning, you can lick more, sucking less. Once you will get some confidence you can use your lips too with your tongue. The tongue is the crucial component in the blowjob, if you know how to use the tongue in the blowjob, you will give the better blowjob.

11. Check out suggestion:

You can also learn fast if you taking the help of a mentor. Every skill needs a mentor to achieve the goal fast. This rule also applies when you are going to learn the blowjob skill. I would like to suggest you check out our suggestion on learning blowjob skills with proper guidelines.

Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, Co-Founder, and blogger at learnblowjob.com. I love to figure out myths and facts about giving and receiving a blowjob through personal experience and research.

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